Monday, December 28, 2009

December 21 - 27, 2009
















From all of us to all of you.
















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Fortie Family Flyer
December 21 – 27, 2009

Dear Family and Friends,
Ho, ho, ho, Merry Christmas, or as the Hawaiians say, mele kalikimaca e haole makahiki hou (Merry Christmas and Happy New Year). Well, as usual, this was one of the busiest weeks of the year. I worked every day but Christmas at Deseret Book and usually didn’t get home until 10:30 or 11:00 p.m. Lots of running around the store sometimes helping 2 or 3 people at a time. It’s hard when you are not used to the store and customers surprise you every so often with a question that you haven’t had yet and you have no idea where that book or gift might be; gets frustrating once and a while. I managed to get a bit of shopping in for Tami, which is hard to do ‘cause she is hard to figure out, but I guess all women are like that (so they say). I got several things at Deseret Book because the older kids wanted stuff from there and I get a discount. It is hard to work at a Deseret Book with a Lion House Pantry in it; too much temptation. They give us good deals on 2 day old pies and they are amazing. I have gained a few pounds always having a pie available in the fridge (can’t let them go to waste).
For Family Home Evening we all (grandpa, grandma, Chad, Alicia, Spencer, Tami, Brian, Michelle, Jennifer and myself) went down to drive through the lights at Thanksgiving Point. The line of cars was like a mile long so it took us a while to get there. Tami and I were in the back seat of grandpa and grandma’s car with Spencer and the other kids were in Chad and Alicia’s car behind us. To keep Spencer from getting bored with the 3 mile an hour drive to the gate I got him out of his car seat and stood him on the floor by me then opened the door so he could see out. He then hung out the window (which gave Alicia, in the car behind us, a heart attack) and waved at people in other cars (there were two lines next to each other) and got to know several people who had fun waving back at him. Just as he was getting tired of that we made it to the lights and enjoyed a nice drive through a fairly large display of lights.
Christmas Eve came and, as usual, we were behind schedule with the whole Christmas thing. I think this is the first year where we are all working and/or going to school and all our schedules are crazy ones so doing things together is like totally not happening very often. I found a few last minute things for gifts before I went to work. Then while I was working at Deseret Book, Repartee Gallery called my house to say that a guy called from Texas and asked if my 20x30 picture that he had ordered of the Idaho Falls Temple had been delivered to his Mother for Christmas. I called them from work and they said they thought they had sent me a purchase order (but I never saw it). Repartee asked if I could get it printed and deliver it right to her today so she would have it for Christmas. Though the store was busy, Deseret Book let me clock out and rush down to Sam’s Club to print the picture (luckily I had it on a flash drive in my pocket) and I then went to Murray to deliver it. I found the little apartment and this little old lady was home so I showed it to her and she absolutely loved it. She said she loved the view from across the river and had often taken walks there. She called her son in Texas to thank him. That was the temple she was sealed to her husband who has long since gone. She was now all alone and would be spending Christmas alone as well. I visited for a few minutes then dashed back to the store to get back to work with the worst crowd of the day and lines half way back to the back wall. It seemed like a long day but we finally closed at 6:00 and I headed home. Tami was working (in the office down stairs) so I had the kids help me wrap each others presents and finally got them to bed a bit after midnight. It had been such a long day that I wasn’t sure how I was going to have the energy to spend a few hours setting traps. I laid down for 15 minutes to get the power nap (I’m not sure it can legally be called a power nap when it is in the middle of the night) then got up and found some fun things (including Halloween decorations – kind of a Nightmare before Christmas theme) and packed the hall and stairs with several small traps. I got to bed at 2:30 and the kids got up at 4:30 to see what lay in store. It took them one and a half hours to get through and they only dropped two things but I had earplugs in and was really out of it so I didn’t hear them. Tami had to work for an hour in the morning so we waited for her before we got up at about 8:30 to open presents. We had fun even though most people knew most of what they were getting. I got a few surprises for the family and I got a surprise from the girls and they enjoyed the feeling that they had something I wouldn’t know about. In fact we talked about how much better the feeling is when we give than when we receive.
There were a few naps in the afternoon and then we went to Curt’s for the family party. Again Tami had to work one hour, she tried to get it off so we waited but it didn’t work so we got there late and she came an hour and a half later. We ate and read stories and grandpa and grandma opened presents. It was a good day.
Saturday Tami was sick and my day was filled with work at DB, taking care of the chores around the house and a quick trip to the store late at night to see what was going down as far as great sales. I did get a seat warmer massager for $14.00. I stayed up until 3:30 to get my talk for Sacrament meeting. I decided that in order to avoid the wandering I tend to do while giving a talk I wrote it out completely. It seemed to work and people said they enjoyed it but it still didn’t feel like it was a great talk.
Sunday afternoon I did dishes and cleaned up the kitchen a bit so we could get dinner then napped for a half hour. I was going to get dinner but Tami dragged herself out of bed long enough to do that. It was good and I was grateful she could help out a bit. Michelle was also sick so Jennifer, who has been sick and still seems to have some infection in her eyes, was the only one who came with me to church. We watched a few Christmas programs and a movie called the Greatest Gift, which was very good, then hit the sack.
Well, must go to work, watch out for those traps in the hall they’ll get ya if you’re not watching.
Bye for now,
Ken and clan



From Elder Fortie:
Well it was nice to hear from the family on Christmas. Though I have to say it didn't feel like it was unusual to talk to you all, I felt like I was just calling home to let you know I'd be home late or something like that. But it was nice to hear you all non the less. Christmas sounds like it was crazy as ever. You all seem to need a nap though after your vacation time... haha.
Anyhow, Christmas here was just fine. Nothing terribly eventful. I made about 140 cookies though, and took them around to members and investigators and the like, that was our activity.
We had another 2 baptisms this weekend, and they both went well, one of the sisters at the Visitors center did a special musical number on the violin at the baptism, and she was fantastic! Wow, she's an amazing violinist, I've never heard anything quite like what she was able to do with a violin, she like was able to make it make a sound I'd never before heard out of a violin that was enchanting. It was great. Also we have another wedding this upcoming Saturday, of a man that has wanted to get baptized for 4 years, but the mother of his children refused to marry him, and he didn't want to separate their family, but she has finally agreed to marry him and he is as excited as a fat kid in a candy shop. So that is great news, and his baptism will be the day after his wedding, along with 3 other people I have been teaching. Then the daughter of the man I baptized last week has decided after feeling the spirit at her fathers baptism she is going to get baptized and is also planning her wedding for the up coming week or two so she can get baptized... The Lord is just dumping out blessings on us. I've never done a wedding my entire mission till this transfer and suddenly in one transfer it's looking like I might have 3! Also to see this many people getting baptized is amazing. Baptisms in this mission are hard to come by. The average missionary got about 3-4 baptisms in their entire mission. Yet for some reason the Lord is just bailing out buckets of blessings on us as we have had baptisms several times a week every week for like over a month. It sure aint me doing all the work, cause I hardly get to see my area... he's sure doing something in my area when I'm not there, and whatever he's doing it's working. The stake had 98 baptisms for the year, and 52 of them came from our ward... the other like 10 wards in the stake got the rest together. The stake nor the mission have never had such a year, and I don't know what's going on I just know I like it haha! The work moves forward! Well I think that will do for now. New years Eve we are going to have us a party (yes President Wade told us to, he doesn't want us out on the streets at night here... not to safe) and we're watching Forever strong, and either Ice Age 3, or Up, we shall see. (those are the three that President is letting us choose from) So it should be good times. I'll let you know how weird it is for me to watch a movie... To be honest I don't think it will be to weird, I see weirder stuff on the streets of Oakland every day that much of it I would never plan on seeing in a movie haha. So I think a few G rated kids movie's won't do me in. Such as on Christmas we went down town Oakland and stood on a street corner and sang Christmas carols, we got a couple druggies that came and started to jump on their heads and run out into the streets hooping and hollering along with our singing... while people sat there in piles of garbage smoking weed and listening to us... yup, gotta love 'Oak-town.'But it was nice and we enjoyed singing even if everyone did think we were loonies. We did get one old black guy in a wheel chair with a Santa’s hat (probably homeless from the look of him) that stopped and started to direct us, he was very friendly and pulled out his little voice recorder and started to record us as we sang, and he gave commentary... he was getting very into his directing as well, there was some moments I was afraid he was going to tip his wheel chair as he waved his arms about frantically trying to bring in his imaginary symphony that wouldn't seem to do what he wanted them to. Or as he would wheel past us at full speed then let go of the wheels to direct us as he was traveling past us not looking or steering any more, as he vigorously tried to rally the tenor section together, while people tried to leap out of the way and he narrowly escaped a collision with another homeless man trying to take a nap on a bus stop bench... Then he spun it around and did the same trick coming back the other way yelling for more power from the Alto's as he about took a trip down the subway entrance stair case... He asked who was in charge of this "fine singing group" and everyone kind of looked around like uhm, I dunno, then they all looked at me and said ah... senior zone leader, he is in charge. and pointed to me. " he then proceeded to call me captain for the rest of the proceedings, and would yell things such as. "Step on their toes Cap'm! make em get them high notes!" or "Cap'm, Cap'm we need another rendition of Joy tu the wold!" (spelled wrong on purpose) "the crowd's a sleepin cap'm, get them to make it bounce! Lift um up! LIFT UM UP CAP'M!!! SING!!!" Then as we went to leave he said "you got a card cap'm?" so I gave him a pass along card, and he picked up his voice recorder and began to discourse into it upon how he had met "cap'm" and sang with his choir etc etc. as we wandered off he was going off into his little voice recorder about raising Oakland from the ashes with song." He was a nut, but he was a nice funny and friendly nut! That's just another day in the bay. Hope you got a kick out of that one. Keep on kickin, and smile on!
Love Elder Fortie





From Jennifer:
Um, I know, it’s been a while…again!
Basically life is INSANE! I have an eye infection, two hurt knees, two hurt hips, and, thank heaven I don’t have two backs because that hurts to! Toppled on that I’ve been sick, I have to get all my redoes in before the deadline in one week and I got a new calling! Yah! But I’m still smiling and I just keep reminding myself I have it better then a whole lot of people out in this crazy world, although if the earth didn’t suck, we would all fall off, so it’s a good thing it does!
Well Christmas was great! Traps was just Michelle, Brian and me this year but Brian tied in his doctor skills in by telling us that sleep cycles go in a pattern of 2 hours so since dad went to bed at two thirty he will be in his deepest sleep at four thirty, two hours, Michelle and I just looked at each other and shrugged. So here we are four thirty and I awake to a synchronized “Jenno, it’s time” we hopped out of bed grabbing our flashlights, scissors, screw drivers, and all other tools and opened our unhinged doors feeling relieved that Brian had already took off all the booby traps on those, then we step into the hall and shine our lights towards the stairs and the first words that popped out of my mouth (in a whisper of course) were “holy shnickeys.” There was a floor to ceiling wall of crinkled up paper, do you know what happens when you try and move crinkled paper twice your height? It makes noise, so what do we do? We move it, using teamwork we kept it steady and on it’s side then stashing it into my room, without making noise. Behind that was a king size foam mattress squished between the walls with tubes that had trick-or-treating buckets hanging on it strung between it and a tall cardboard set (pretty sure were the only house in America that has sets lying around our house) after tackling the mattress while holding up the tubes to keep them steady we slid off the buckets and accidentally hit a container that made noise, but not enough to wake up mom and dad. And behind that was a field of wrapping paper and tarps which we handled just the same as the first obstacle, then after a long hour and a half we made it to the tree, looked threw our stockings then in exhaustion marched back up to bed and went again to sleep.
At work the boys and I made REALLY good cookies, which to my surprise was there first time. When I told them what we were doing that day Sam looked at me like I was crazy and said, Jenn we can’t make cookies, you have to be a store person to do that! It made me laugh really hard but much to there surprise we were magic and we made them! Then we ate half the dough and baked the other half, they sat in front of the oven watching them bake the entire time. Then we got them out and decorated them with frosting and sprinkles, the expression on their face was priceless and tasted their first cookie made from home. I encourage you all to not let the little moments in your life slip away, make them into a time you will remember forever, cause that time is in my memories forever. And spend them with someone because if you look back at the best moments in your life, there almost all with someone.
I must be off! Always remember the first part of CHRISTmas, let it be first in your life as well. Love you all!
Jenno Fortie

Monday, December 21, 2009

December 14 - 20, 2009



























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Fortie Family Flyer
December 14 – 20, 2009

Dear Family and Friends,
Well, with the new job giving me increased hours and me trying to get pictures ready for Repartee Gallery and Deseret Book, taking care of a few sick people, getting my genealogy class lessons and my High Priest Group lessons I have had no time to write lately. It is now late Sunday night and we just finished decorating for Christmas and it is time for bed. I have to get up for work early so no time to write. Most if the week has simply been work or teaching classes or trying to fix a few pictures or shoveling snow or cleaning, etc., etc., etc. therefore what I have been doing is not too exciting to write about anyway. Oh, I almost forgot I have had to do some Christmas shopping also; crazy how that is needed this time of year. We did get to go to grandpa and grandma’s for dinner after home teaching and Brian’s church on Sunday. We had a nice time and Spencer is really starting to grow up – it’s fun to watch.
Oh, Jennifer has really had some hip and knee problems until we almost took her into the emergency room the other night. We decided to wait until morning which helped but it hasn’t gone away. She always seems to come up with things that the doctors can’t figure out.
I don’t feel like I fit into my store yet. Some people treat me well but some just act like I am not staying so why bother getting to know me. So many of them complain about their schedule or about customers or what ever until you just want to escape. I guess I was lucky that the other three stores I worked in so long ago had good people that I enjoyed working with.
They called and asked me to speak on genealogy in sacrament meeting on the 27th so now I need to get that talk ready over the next week.
Well, must get to bed, Christmas is coming and I want to stay healthy. Until next week when I hope I will have more time to write, may your dreams be merry and bright and may all your Christmas’ be white.
Ken and clan



From Nathan and Paige:

Hi there! Things are going well here... just 1 day at a time. Avery has begun to test my patience and I'm about to explode with her. She has reverted back to peeing everywhere at anytime. 2 days ago she pee'ed on the couch. I am at my whits end with that girl. It's like she is mad 1 minute and wants to cuddle the next. If she wasn't fixed, I'd say she's pregnant!!
Nathan has been really busy lately. Of course, I don't know specifics and even if I did I couldn't email about them, but I haven't heard that much from him either. He is doing well though. Just ready to be home......this should be a long one! :)

Nathan's address is:

Nathan Fortie
PRG 6-3 (2)
APO AE 09354-3005

I think that's all for now! We love you all as well and hope that you all have a very Merry Christmas and a safe and wonderful New Year!

Love,
Paige



From Elder Fortie:
So this must be quick like lightning, besides I'm going to talk to you all in a few days anyways. We had a baptism this Sunday! It was fantastic, and the service was one of the best I've attended, I invited everyone in the room that wasn't a member to be baptized (I've become quite bored with beating about the bush) I stood up at the front, taught about the restoration and the plan of salvation, then invited all the non members to prepare themselves to be baptized, and we had 2 that said they wanted to be baptized and we are now teaching them to prepare them. I've found being bold usually only offends the ones who were going to ignore you anyway, and catches the attention of those who the Lord has prepared, so I just go around doing what I do and if someone doesn't like it then hopefully they will accept it some day when they're heart is softened.
The other day while tracting a man opened his door and I said "were here to teach you the restored gospel of Jesus Christ so that you can prepare to follow His example and be baptized on the 10th of January by someone holding the priesthood authority, will you let us in to teach and prepare you?" He looked at me and said (all this was in Spanish but I'm translating for you) "well I've got a lot to learn if I'm going to be ready by then so I guess you better start teaching me." Now he is preparing for baptism January 10th and was at church and brought 2 of his friends on Sunday.
But anyways, back to my baptism story, the man that got baptized is like 50, and has his family that still lives at home but all his kids are adults but they all just still live together. They also have a man about in his late 20's that has lived with them for years that they call "nino" which is Spanish for boy, or child or son, which basically says he is their son. Nino was planning on moving back to Central America to be with his family (nino is a member of the church by the way) but when he found out the man that was his second father was going to be baptized, he decided to stay long enough to be at the baptism, and we asked him to speak at it the morning of the baptism... Nino's father (who he would have seen had he gone home when he had originally planned) passed away... Nino called us and said he couldn't speak any more, and we were very understanding and felt very sad for him. Then a few hours later he called back and said he had changed his mind, he wanted to speak. At the baptism, as nino got up there to give his talk, he began to sob, as he spoke of the loss of his father because of his choice to stay to see the baptism, but then with a fire in his eyes he looked up and said "but I did not lose my father, he is there waiting for me, and I still have a father, my Father in Heaven, and I know without a shadow of a doubt, that right here in this room is where I needed to be this day, to be able to tell you all how divinely I understand the plan God has for us, and that I have no fear for I know I will see my father again, and I have my second family, that I am here with today, and I know that they are finding the truth this day." then he began to weep... one of the sons of the man that was being baptized ran up to the pulpit and took nino in his arms, and wept with him... till nino regained his composure, then nino went on to beautifully teach the importance of baptism in God's plan for us. Then as nino sat down out ward mission leader stood up, and completely unplanned, looked out at the audience and said "we will now have a special musical number... Elder Fortie... will you do that for us." I was a little caught off guard, but as a missionary you get used to that kind of thing, so I signaled to the piano player to play silent night, as I stood up and began to sing, half way through the song, weeping, was heard in the room, as nino once again, as he listened to the song, broke into tears, other members of the audience began to cry as well, and then... I watched one of the people I have been teaching, who is preparing to be baptized on January 3rd, who has turned from a Crystal meth addict and drug dealer, into one of the most respectable and kind and gentle and intelligent and gospel loving men I know, run down the isle, and take nino in his arms, and hold him... two fully grown men, that had never met before, were weeping together, as I sang silent night at this baptism, and the scripture "he shall mourn with those that mourn, and comfort those that stand in need of comfort" passed through my mind... and as I was singing, I choked on the words, and began to cry as well... pondering upon these things, the words of the song I was singing, the change of heart that had happened upon this investigator, to bring him to such a Christ like love, to live that scripture, as I sang of the birth of him for who it was written... I struggled for a few lines, then was eventually able to choke back the tears well enough to finish the song, and I took my seat. For a moment there was silence in the room, before finally the program moved on as the Bishop welcomed him to the ward. It was an incredible experience, one I shall never forget in all my life.
My time is up, I have to run. Thank you all for your love. Remember, that's what this is all about. This life is to learn to love. 'If ye love me, keep my commandments" "for greater love hath no man then this, that he layeth down his life, for his friends" "Love one another". Merry Christmas, one and all, please, go show someone your love for them. Love, Elder Fortie

Monday, December 14, 2009

December 7 - 13, 2009
















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December 7 – 13, 2009

Dear Family and Friends,
Work, work, busy, busy, shop, shop, spend, spend, run, run, play, play, see, see, decorate, decorate, when does rest, rest happen. I missed writing this week so I don’t remember much (a month later).
Happy Birthday to Paige. It was a hard birthday for her I'm sure since Nathan had to leave for lands unknown around her birthday. Stay safe Nathan and keep in touch.
I did administer the ACT test on Saturday morning, nothing new or eventful happened. I then worked at Deseret Book in the evening – long day.
On Sunday we ate at grandpa and grandma’s then all went to Temple Square to see the lights. It was a bit rainy so I was worried but it turned out to be fine and made the sidewalks wet which gave all the lights a shinny better look. There were not as many lights this year as in years past so pictures were not quite as good but we had fun.
That’s it for me. Hope all your Christmas preparation goes well.
Ken and clan




From Elder Fortie:
Alright everyone time is non existent, I just got called to go do a musical number for a Christmas program and I've never even seen the music and I have a half hour to learn what supposedly from what I hear is one of the most complex arrangements of Angels we have heard on high that there is. Apparently only the words are the same... the music has nothing to do with what we sing in the hymn book... here we go...So quickly before I forget! I will be calling home on Christmas at 11:00 A.M. CALIFORNIA time, which would be 12 NOON UTAH time. Got it? NOON for you, that's all you've got to remember.
So We had a wedding on Friday!!! Yay!!! Alfonzo and Angela were married on Saturday the 12th so they can prepare to be baptized with their 2 kids on The 26th of December! The day after Christmas!!! Good Christmas present eh? Prayers are welcome on the subject haha! The wedding was great and we had a great party afterwards! Our other investigator Mayra, caught the Bouquet (she also needs to get married to get baptized... coincidence? I think not!) So that was humorous, we've just been busting our tails trying to make things happen but we've been run pretty ragged as well seeing as we are preparing everything at the temple and stuff for Christmas... I tell you I'm so busy doing my job I'm not sure when I'm supposed to do my job... yes that was meant to sound like that.
Okay sorry to break this news like a Ming vase, but I got my mission extended! I now no longer return the first of April, I am now due to come back in mid May! I am really excited for the extra time to serve, especially since extensions are not easy to come by, so it is really a blessing.
Well I run short on time, but I hope you all have a jolly little time in preparation for Christmas. I wish I could spend more time, I would love to send you all a little Christmas message and what not, but my time does not permit it. Just remember, why we have this day. Forget the hustle and bustle, and smile, laugh, sing, pray... I love you all!Love,Elder Fortie

Monday, December 7, 2009

November 30 - December 6, 2009

Pictures of grandpa and grandma's Christmas lights - zooming into tree and through window fog.





Fortie Family Flyer
November 30 – December 6, 2009

Dear Family and Friends,
We finally got Brian on Tami’s insurance on December 1 and Tami’s work messed up on her paycheck (took all the money out rather than part for Brian) so we ‘got no money’ this week. Not only can we not go Christmas shopping but even food is going to have to be put on hold for now. Perhaps we will just have to extend fast Sunday to include the entire week. I have about $30.00 in my wallet for gas to get to work and that is it. We both should get paid Friday, hopefully that will at least catch us up to a few dollars above zero for next week. I have heard rumors that Santa has moved Christmas to April when Jesus was actually born; hope all the kids will buy into that.
I have been noticing stories everywhere I turn (books, PBS specials, radio) about artists and their poverty stricken lives as they go bankrupt 2 or 3 times or get food from dumpsters while trying to do what they feel is their life’s work. This tends to last until they either finally become successful or die trying (of course that’s when their work suddenly starts selling). A happy note about this artists situation, I finally got word that Kim Sparks (from Deseret Book) got back with Sounds of Zion and they will be ordering some of my pictures to get them into the stores. Hopefully they will sell so that maybe we can start feeding the kids again.
I finished listening to the set of CD’s called “Keys to Understanding the Book of Revelation” by Richard Draper. I have some old tapes on this subject by him but this seems to be the new and improved version. They are very good and I want to use them for scripture study with the kids so they can see the big picture of what is going down in the last days.
I went to the party at Pixels camera shop celebrating the printing of the book “Capture My Utah” that I had submitted pictures for on the internet. I didn’t order one earlier because with something like 12,500 pictures submitted I didn’t think I would have a chance of having any in the book. They said there is a CD that comes with the book and rumor was spreading through the crowd that everyone has at least one picture on the CD. I sat and watched part of the CD and did see one of my pictures on it. They had several books lying around for people to look through and as I was coming from the food table with a plate of yummy food type things I noticed that there were no books available so I stopped behind a guy who was looking through one of them and asked if he would mind if I looked over his shoulder as he went through the book. He said that would be fine and he turned the next page and there was my picture of the Oquirrh Mountain temple at sunset as one of the small 2x3 shots on the page introducing the topic of buildings. I said, “Oh wow there is one of my pictures.” He then turned the page and there was a full page picture of mine of the Salt Lake Temple at sunset. I said, “Oh wow; there is another one.” I then decided that I had better leave because I thought I might be a bit obnoxious saying there is one of my pictures on the first two pages I saw and most people never got even one picture in the book so I quietly slipped away. Later I looked through the whole book and found one more small picture of mine in another category of all the girls around the campfire at girls camp and a quarter page shot of the stream in Big Cottonwood Canyon I took in the fall. That was pretty exciting to me but the sad thing was I couldn’t afford the book so I had to walk away with the satisfaction that they liked my pictures enough to put them in a nice picture book of Utah. Maybe someday I will be able to get the book, or better yet, make my own (I can do that at Sam’s Club for $40.00, the same price as this book). As I was leaving, the caterer asked if I wanted to take a tray of shish kabobs home… I did; now we have something to eat for a few days.
I went to the Republican Party meeting on Thursday night, listened to the proposed changes to the rules, voted with the majority on all but one thing. I agreed with the leaders that wanted to lower the percent a candidate needed to win in the convention from 60% to 51% so we would not need to take it to an expensive primary election that the Democrats have learned they can sign up for and help determine who our candidate will be that will then run against them. Most people thought it was taking some freedoms away from the general population but I believed it was leaving it in our hands (the chairman of each precinct) and keeping the enemy out of our camp. We had several vote our way but not a majority. I don’t think the guy presented it very well, maybe next year.
Work is very strange, I am grateful for the work and I worked five of the six days this week but the store just isn’t the same as the other stores I have worked at in the past; no life, no energy, no enjoyment. It is surprising how much backbiting there is for a bunch of LDS people. I’m telling you I really sense that the spirit is gradually pulling away from our country and people everywhere are becoming more and more contentious, grumpy, hopeless and withdrawn. I wonder how bad it is going to get before people wake up to there situation – if they ever do. We will either become like the people of Melchizedek or the people of Mormon, our choice.
Tami’s adopted mom called Friday morning to tell us that Tami’s brother, Cal, died. He has hardly kept in touch with us for several years and I sensed that he wasn’t doing very well. She said he had been on a lot of pain killers and finally just gave out. Tami was at work and I debated as to whether to call her or wait. I realized she would want to know so I called her. She took it pretty hard and couldn’t work very well so they sent her home. Now we have to wonder what they are going to do about a funeral and such… they are hard to predict that group.
Saturday morning most of us happened to be available (usually all of us work on Saturday and at least one in the morning) so we (Tami, Michelle, Jennifer and myself – Brian went last night with a date and had school Saturday morning) decided to go to the Christmas Tree Festival since we haven’t been for years. We had a nice walk through with the two girls on each of my arms singing songs or taking pictures of cool trees. We of course had to get a scone and a sweet roll to share. We finished a quick walk through before all of us had to work that evening.
I taught the genealogy class on Sunday and then went around to member’s houses after church for two and a half hours helping them get started on genealogy. People seem to be catching on to the emphasis the church leaders are putting on temple work, genealogy and family history. When Brian got home from church we all headed for grandpa and grandma’s for dinner and a nice visit. I decided that since I had taught everyone in class how to record someone’s personal history or get genealogy from them somehow I had better try to do what I was teaching. My mom has always avoided being recorded but we finally talked her into telling about her life history on camera. It turned out well and I even learned a few things about her that I didn’t know. We did that for about an hour then we all settled in to watch the First Presidency’s Christmas Devotional while we ate ice-cream and cake. We finally left at 9 so we could get kids to bed for school in the morning. The roads were a bit slick on the way home as snow had been coming down off and on all day but wasn’t very deep yet. It’s supposed to linger for a few days, we’ll see if we get anything worthwhile (at least more than an inch or two).
Well, that’s our week, hope yours was fantabulous.
Ken and clan



From Elder Fortie:
Amazing is the Lord, truly amazing. I had one of the worst weeks of my mission. I had much of my week booked with firesides and meetings, and had little time to work. Then when the little time I had left to work came, missionaries made foolish mistakes and I was sent to resolve them. Sisters (that were really just fine at home in their apartments, but forgot to turn their phones on, because all sisters are required to call in every night to their district leaders to confirm that they are safe and home.) in Oakland not calling in and their district leader calls me at 10:40 at night to tell me his sisters are missing, and me at 11:00 at night out in down town Oakland in the rain looking for the missing sisters who were home happily in bed. Elders causing problems that I am sent to fix that took 2 days for me and the president to resolve etc. etc. Come Friday, I had only taught 2 lessons all week, neither of them very successful, I was frustrated, burnt out, stressed, upset at many missionaries because of their negligence that caused so many problems for me, I was down because all the goals we'd set were looking impossible, and I was sick of doing a thankless job that I felt was nothing but babysitting. Then Saturday night, when I was just about to start biting people, after I had had NO time ALL week to work in my area, and I felt like my area was abandoned and that I had done nothing with it, we only had 4 hours left in the night, and Sunday I had meetings all day, so this was all I had to make anything happen, and It looked hopeless. I said a prayer in my mind thinking "Lord, I know this is your work, and I feel bad, I feel as if I have had no time to really do my part. Yet I know, I have not wasted a minute, every moment I have had was hectically dedicated to doing everything that was demanded of me, but I want to do true missionary work, I want to know that my diligence isn't just to be a babysitter." I was at my wits end, I had worked my tail off all week doing my job as a mission leader and it had cost me all the time I had to serve the Lords children and I was so frustrated because of it. But the Lord knows his work, and he prepares it well. In those 4 hours, after that plea, our ward mission leader called us up and said I want to go out with you all night, lets go. over the course of the next 4 hours, with the Lord setting the way at every moment, and using us as his tools, we set 5 baptismal dates, taught 9 lessons, set up 2 weddings so investigators could get married so they could progress, found 3 new investigators, and ate pupusa's... (I think that was a heavenly mercy). I have NEVER in all my mission had that kind of success. By the end of that night I was driving home singing "All Creatures of our God and King" and the top of my lungs and in pure giddy amazed delight at the power of the Lord! It goes to show how much this work is about him. I did NOTHING for my area all week, and that night, when I was at rock bottom, he gave me the most powerful successful night of my mission! I am out of time, I have to go, but just so you all know I am doing FANTASTIC!!! I have never seen such blessings on my mission, and I realized even though all the things I was doing felt useless, that the Lord blesses us for our obedience, and he did work in my area all week, even if I did not. I love you all! Love, Elder Fortie.

Monday, November 30, 2009

November 23 - 29, 2009




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November 23 – 29, 2009

Dear Family and Friends,
Turkey, lurkey, shmurky (I think that was what the Swedish chief said on the Muppet Christmas), it’s all marvelous indeed (except the parsnips we used to have to eat every Thanksgiving at grandma’s – never got used to those). Happy Thanksgiving to one and all; hope your Thanksgiving dinner was delicious and your Thanksgiving Day was enjoyed with family and friends.
I didn’t write this week and now it’s more than a month later and it’s all gone. I do remember on Wednesday Thurl Bailey came in to the store and I sold him a few dozen rolls. He was very personable, we had a nice conversation.
Our thanksgiving meal was great. Part of our chatting at the end of the meal was about memories from Anita Ave. It was fun to talk about the crazy basement I set up for the kids with the fort under the bunk beds and the fireman’s pole down from the top bunk and the secret door in the wall and the train set and the three wheelers hanging from the ceiling and the big whiteboard, etc. – fun times.
At the end of the day the kids wanted to do something besides play cards so I suggested we go to the church and play croquette. The other adults were too full but the kids were all over that so we had grandpa come with us (to unlock it) and he worked in the office while we played. The Loosle’s were in the gym so we set up a course in the hallway ending in the Relief Society room. It was a lot of fun and we decided we should do it every year.
Jennifer and I went shopping at 5:00 a.m. Friday morning and I had a feeling I should stop at Target before going on to Sam’s, our first stop. We found a keyboard for a great door buster price and I felt I should buy it. The lines were long so we left it in the corner of the store and hit a few other stores then came back and got it. We didn’t find much but we enjoyed the day. Michelle went shopping with her friends and they seemed to have fun. Now I have a keyboard that will hook up to the computer so I can play the songs I have made up and the computer will be kind enough to put what I play on paper for me. Marvelous things these computers.
Well, that’s all I can come up with for now. Aren’t turkey’s and mashed potatoes and pies wonderful.
Ken and clan



From Elder Fortie:
Well Transfers have come and I'm still here as ZL in Oakland, which means I get to deal with the crazy holiday sister drama! I am afraid... oh so very afraid... (don't tell any of the sisters I said that....) Which means I will probably be here for a while, because I am one of the youngest zone leaders and most of the other ones are going home soon so I will have to stick around to train new ones, even the one I just trained is going home before me, so he won't even be able to take my spot! How lame is that! But exciting news! (for me at least) my son is already district leader! The elder that I busted my tail training right before I got made ZL, is only in his fourth transfer and he's already a district leader! He is such a fantastic missionary! He's tearing it up, he's probably going to be the one that takes my spot when I go home. Not that it's really anything I did, but still one becomes' strangely attached to the missionaries he trains, so to see one I trained doing so well, makes me proud of him!
So the Christmas lights are up at the temple now, I kinda like it I kinda don't. The Christmas lights in Salt Lake are a lot more classy. The lights here are pretty, yet they are to flashy, it's like Las Vegas. The Salt Lake Temple's lights almost sing Christmas to you with peace and joy and gentleness. These lights are like the cookie monster running around yelling "CHRISTMAS!!!! LIGHTS!!!!! WOOOOW! PRETTY!!! BLUE!!! PURPLE! RED! PINK! WHITE! YAY!!!!!!! CHRISTMAS!!!!!!!!!!!!" I'm kinda not a fan. I mean, it's really nice, and it draws a lot of people, I just feel like it's not temple conducive... Not that it's bad, if it were any where else it would be great, just not on a temple grounds. I dunno, maybe it's just me.
So Thanksgiving was good. I got good and full, and the food was fine, but it just didn't feel like Thanksgiving. I really miss San Francisco... things just don't feel the same over here... Thanksgiving, and Christmas over there, felt like Thanksgiving and Christmas, they were special, here it was just a day where a few families gave us a lot of food to eat and I taught them about being Thankful... It just didn't feel the same. Haha, most missionaries get trunky for home... no offense I love you all, but I know there are more Christmas's and Thanksgiving's with you all to come, but not having Thanksgiving out there made me trunky for San Francisco! I'm still on my mission and I'm trunky for my mission! Sad... that's some twisted logic... I never thought doing the same service in two different places could be so different. Nothing has changed about me, I still do the same work, teach the same gospel, have the same calling as a missionary, yet something’s just not the same. I dunno what it is, but things just aren't quite the same... lol not that you need to worry about me or anything, I'm just reflecting my thoughts on paper... err... screen... key board?... computer, e-mail, stuff, yeah...
Anyhow, so again, I hate to say these kinds of things because it makes me feel like by mentioning it, it seems like I'm trying to remind people so that they will do something, but I'm really not, it's just an inevitable thing that must be addressed for instances of holidays and birthdays and such. Not that anyone needs to! But if anyone was planning on sending me something for Christmas, don't send me objects. I don't like to admit it, but my days as a missionary are growing short, and I'm to the time when I have to realize all the stuff I want to keep, has to fit in 2 suit cases... so I'm already having to look at what I'm gonna have to cut, so I don't need any more objects that I'm going to want to keep that will take up non-existent room in my suit cases. I love you all, and I appreciate that people want to do something, but when life has to fit in about 5 cubed ft. and not be over 100 lbs. People's kind gestures become rather smooshed... so not that I need anything, but if you are bent on sending me something, don't send objects. IF you are one of those crazy people who plan way to far ahead and have already got something ( I don't think anyone that knows me is that organized...but just in case) then I don't want you to feel bad or that you can't send it. Just don't go getting anything more haha. Once again, I truly am serious when I say I need nothing. Okay, done with that awkward conversation!
So we're shooting for 20 more baptisms by the end of the year for our stake... President Packer, us and the Stake president talked things over and it's a pretty bold goal, in fact, pretty much, it will set some records for the mission, but we think we can do it... We've got 6 of the 20 so far... so we've got 1 month to get another 14... It’s rough, and it will be especially rough because of Christmas time which means a lot of us missionaries spend a lot of time doing stuff for the V.C. and not teaching. So we've got our work cut out for us, but we've been setting records right and left, so we'll see if we can keep it up!Alright I gotta fly! talk to you all later!
Love,
Elder Fortie

Monday, November 23, 2009

November 16 - 22, 2009

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Fortie Family Flyer
November 16 – 22, 2009

Dear Family and Friends,
Thanksgiving is in the air, I had better make sure my thankfulness is in good working condition. Lets see, what am I thankful for… Several years ago I remember having the kids write their top 50 things they were thankful for, in order and at first it was easy but after a while they had to really start thinking. I wonder what I would write today. Well, since there is not much to speak of in the news department this week perhaps that will be my letter.
Here we go:
Life
Good and evil
Jesus
Salvation
Love
Faith
Hope
The Gospel
Family
Extended Family
Priesthood
Prophets
Scriptures
Temples
America
Founding Fathers
The Constitution
Pioneers
Health
Eyes to see
A Home
Friends
Indoor Plumbing
Electricity
Fruit Trees
Beautiful Scenery
Sunsets
Roses
Song of the Meadowlark
Mountain Streams
Lilacs
Flight of an Eagle
Good Music
Books
Cars
Refrigerator
Computers
A Camera
Internet
Mountain Bike
Beach
Comfortable bed
Camping
Garden Vegetables
Educational Programs – Science, Travel, History, etc.
Scooter
Airplanes
Moon
Stars
Piano

Well, I finished this letter then the power went out and it had saved it up to about number 40 so I had to do the last 10 over again plus the rest of the letter. Hope I remember it all.
Since we had already celebrated Michelle’s birthday this week was a bit more low key. Jennifer and I went and decorated Michelle’s locker at school (I had to get Jennifer out of school to do it) and Jennifer bought Michelle a lunch from Wendy’s. She is nice that way. Michelle came to her locker and we talked for a bit before I had to get Jennifer back to school.
I started work at the American Fork Deseret Book store this week. It sure was strange trying to get used to registers that I used to train people on. For the first day I felt like I was in a foreign country; crazy how quickly I forget things. It is also strange not being the supervisor. I was able to quickly remember the fun little things I used to say to the customers to break the ice. Hope I can fit in with this crowd.
Saturday I worked in the morning as did everyone in our house so I went and picked up the BYU game that grandpa and grandma taped for us so we could watch it that night. The girls worked late so Tami and I watched it. It was a good game.
I taught the genealogy class on Sunday and then Priesthood after that. It is always difficult to switch gears and teach one right after the other. After church we sent Michelle after grandma Talley and grandpa and grandma and Chad came over for dinner and we had a nice time.
Oh, I have been listening to a set of CD’s about the book of Revelation by Draper. It is very interesting. Looks like we are in for some interesting times.
Well, that’s it for this week.
What are you thankful for?
Ken and clan



From Elder Fortie:
Hello everyone, so this morning I had to be up at the temple at 7:00 in the morning to take down one of the exhibits they had up for the California Pioneers as they prepare for all the Christmas exhibits, I love Christmas, but I am not looking forward to being the zone leader here during Christmas time... this place gets insane at Christmas... It's total madness, and they tell me all the sisters, (I have like 18 sister missionaries that I am over) with all the stress of being in the Visitors center during the madness, they get pretty nasty! (You female's, no offense, but you don't usually take stress well, you get all hopped up and crazy!) and with 18 sisters in one building with thousands of people coming through that they are supposed to help... all those hormones packed together under high stress every night for like 45 days... and I am the one that all their problems come to... please, your prayers are appreciated...
Well this week has been pretty good, although I have filed for retirement once again... but president doesn't think he's gonna let me retire from zone leader, he says I'm doing to much work to retire, and I am tempted to be useless so he will retire me, but then there's this nasty little thing called a conscience, and it possesses me and won't let me! Cursed conscience.... Although I rejoice in the fact that I will stay as a zone leader, because that means I won't be an AP BWA HAHAHAHAHA!!! Dodged that bullet! I don't understand all the greenies that come in wanting a leadership position, the joys that come from the simple service, from changing people's lives, from bringing the gospel into someone’s home, that is what our purpose and where the true joy in service comes from! Not from "I'm gonna be the next AP!" (All you future missionaries out there that are reading this, take heed, I'm serious, forget callings and just work, just do your job whatever it is, and do it right. No one cares about callings). Okay, off my soap box.
Thanksgiving is coming up, and one of our recent converts asked us this past week to come over and help him work on his back yard, so we went and dug out about 6 inches down a 15x30 ft. area in his back yard because he's trying to make a patio, then when we got done he told us it was for us because he wants us to come over for thanksgiving and have a thanksgiving picnic! So our efforts appear that they will pay off. My hands are getting soft after so long without any good hard manual labor... so they get pretty worn out swinging a pick for 2 hours, as does my muscles that have slowly turned to gelatin over the course of my mission... but we got the job done right quick, and then had a tasty lunch, (the mom is a chef! hehe) and are looking forward to some thanksgiving yum!
We have been trying to get a few people married recently too! (so we can baptize them!) so it's looking like were gonna shoot for a mid December wedding so we can have a Christmas time baptism! YEAH!!! We have a bunch of people we are teaching, but Satan's trying really hard to throw them off, every possible obstacle imaginable is coming down on us and them, BUT WE WILL RESIST!!! WE WILL OVER COME ALL BARRIERS!!! Satan cannot stop us now! He's mean sometimes, but we're stubborn! (or dumb... one of the two...) But either way it works!
Well I must get going, can't dilly dally you know, lots to do, so little time to do it all. Everyone out here keeps asking me when I'm going home... they seem to think my end is near, they all say it seems like I've been out a long time, yet I still have over 1/4 of the way to go! WHY DOES EVERYONE THINK I'M DYING??!!!! I'm still young yet! I refuse to die! Back off!
Anyhow, keep on going and doing stuff and things like that, and I'll do the same. Chin up, back straight, suck in your gut and slap on a smile!Love,
Elder Fortie

Monday, November 16, 2009

November 9 - 15, 2009

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Fortie Family Flyer
November 9 – 15, 2009

Dear Family and Friends,
We have six weeks ‘till Christmas, 7 weeks ‘till 2010 and one hundred sixty one weeks (give or take) until December 21, 2012 and the end of the world, so they say (or at least until the end of the Mayan calendar which, when we figure out the truth, probably means it’s time to change the batteries in their calendar). Hum, I guess we better get out and see as much of the world as we can in that one hundred and sixty one weeks (just in case).
Well, as usual, not much to report this week. I did have both the Sandy and the American Fork Deseret Book stores try to hire me. The American Fork Store offered more hours and said they were much more fun to work with so I took that one. I start Monday the 16th (today). Hopefully it will be a positive experience and my ankle will allow me to do a good job.
I decided I didn’t get a very well rounded group of pictures from Wheeler Farm when I went to take family pictures so I went back in the middle of this week but there had been some pretty strong winds for a few days before that and it went from beautiful yellow colors to brown and gray rather quickly so not much success there. I’m not even sure why I take these pictures; I still have to come up with a way to get them to make money - perhaps a calendar with a quote from the scriptures on each page or something.
Nothing fun in the evenings going down all week; just work and girls doing activities for church. I did shop for Tami’s birthday but I am never very good at finding something she likes so I really struggled with it. I finally found something and before she even opened it she told me that she wanted to use her birthday and Christmas money to get a new couch for the family room so I said we might as well not look at what I got since we just have to take it back. She wanted to see it anyway so she opened it and actually liked it and wanted to keep it – shock of the century for me. It was a warm robe since she gets cold in the office down stairs in the winter time. On Saturday we went to dad and mom’s to watch the game. Due to work schedules we were a few minutes late but had a nice time once there. Alicia fixed some soup that really hit the spot so I asked for the recipe. I think we have several soup days coming up with the temperature falling and snow coming down.
It snowed pretty hard Saturday night and Michelle had the truck at work so I went and let her drive the car while I drove the truck home. Even though it was just from 134th (Kneaders) to our house it was very slick and we could see 3 accidents on 134th from the restaurant. The truck had a hard time making it up the slope on Monarch Meadows and Shaggy Peak (not very steep just very slick) but we finally made it home. It’s nice to have a home to come to in weather like that. We got home late and I stayed up a bit to get my lesson for my genealogy class. Our ward is now able to get on to the New Family Search sight (as of Monday) so we will see if I can’t get our ward on it and doing their genealogy. The class went well on Sunday, now I just need to get next weeks lessons for Sunday School and Priesthood earlier in the week so I’m not staying up late on Saturday night working on them. We all slept after church and one home teaching visit for me. Tami ended up making the dessert for the birthday dinner at mom and dads. When Brian came home we took off, the roads had cleared up pretty well so we had no problems. We had a nice dinner and visit and Tami and Michelle blew out candles and we had cake and ice-cream, of course. Mike and Linda and Ashley were there as well.
Well, that is indeed the whole week except all the exciting stuff, but then that would have been a fiction story and I don’t do fiction. Hope all is going well for you and you are thankful for what you have in this season of Thanksgiving.
Ken and clan




From Elder Fortie:
No, I didn't die; the two day delay in my letter is just because I moved our zone's p-day to Wednesday just for this week to let them go to the temple (It's not open on Monday when we have p-day and p-day is the only day were allowed to go). So I moved it for this week so they could have their tri- annual temple trip. So P-day is Wednesday for this week, but we'll be back to Monday next week. My week was again filled with lots of administration but not as much as last week gratefully. Although this upcoming week is looking like I may be doing another long haul... Still smiling though!
Well the temple this morning was great! I'm there almost everyday, but I don't get to do a session. So to actually get to go through it and not just rush around at meetings at it was a nice chance to relax and do some reflecting and stress relief. It was a bit of a frustrating week. I do wish members would better understand their purpose in the mission work and both the good, and bad affects they can have by simple choices. I had to deal with two situations where active members pulled a dumb move with an investigator which is head aches and problems I don't want to have nor does it need to happen! Be good! Be kind and nice and loving to investigators! Okay? All you people out there, treat them well! Both to their faces AND when their not around! That's all I'm gonna say about that.
Well I set 2 baptismal dates this past week! One of them is living with her boy friend and is not married and has a 4 year old kid, she accepted the baptismal date, and our next lesson was going to be on getting her married so she could get baptized. I was worried about it because I didn't think it was going to go over very well with the boy friend, he didn't seem like he wanted to get married, but to my surprise the Lord had a nice blessing up his sleeve. The next day after she set a date to be baptized, before I'd ever told them she couldn't get baptized until she got married, he proposed to her!!! Out of no where! After living together for like 4 years he "randomly" (with a little celestial help...) decided to ask her to marry him! Yeah... coincidence.... I think not! This is so the Lord's work and he prepares those whom are open to change! So that was exciting.
One night this past week, we’re not sure what I got but I had a temperature of 101.7 degrees, and we were supposed to have 4 appointments in the next 4 hours, and I was shaking like a leaf struggling to stand as we knocked on the door of our first of 4 really important appointments. We were looking like we were in trouble! But then our ward mission leader, "tio Ted" (His name is Theodore Fairchild, who's a white guy who was a former professor at BYU and several other prestigious universities who served his mission in Guatemala, but he goes by "Tio Ted" which is Spanish for "uncle Ted") he's a funny little sweet man in his early 60's that does a ton for us and is a great teacher and missionary showed up at the appointment and said I needed to get some rest, so they took me home and left me with another Elder who was sick and he went out with my companion and went to all our appointments for me. He's a great guy and he did a great job, the people love him and he really knows how to get stuff done. I was up and running by the next day, but I was pushin 102 degrees which if I remember right is not good haha. But I'm totally fine and back to norm now. So that was another great help to have him there to take over for us.
Well now I gots to go, no p-day for the wicked hahaha. My p-days usually consist of doing my laundry, writing an e-mail and if I'm really lucky I'll have time to write a letter or two sometime throughout the day to a friend. Its madness and I don't really get a p-day most of the time, more of just it's a day when I'm allowed to clean and write home and friends in between all the other stuff I have to do. My time has run out, stay strong everyone, keep on smiling, happy birthday to Mom and Michelle, and remember... something... because I don't!
Love,
Elder Fortie

Monday, November 9, 2009

November 2 - 8, 2009

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Fortie Family Flyer
November 2 – 8, 2009

Dear Family and Friends,
What to say about this week. Monday the girls worked but we all went out for a milkshake after they got home.
Tuesday I went to take pictures of Chad, Alicia and Spencer. We went to a little park behind a cemetery near dad and moms house. It was a nice little spot but we didn’t have much time after Chad got off work and the sun went down, daylight savings time is over and it gets dark early.
I had an interview with the Sandy Deseret Book on Tuesday, then one with the American Fork store on Thursday. They both offered me a job, the Sandy store is closer but the American Fork store offered me more hours and said they were much more fun so I took that one. I should be starting soon. Perhaps that will keep us afloat through Christmas.
Brian drove on his scooter for 2 days on a flat tire and didn’t know it so he destroyed the tire and the rim. It is going to really cost him to replace it. I took it in to the shop when I went to the American Fork store for an interview.
Saturday I got up early to get my Sunday School and Priesthood lessons. I don’t feel ready to teach everyone about the New Family Search program but what can you do, they asked me to do it and so we do what we can. I didn’t pay attention to the rest of the family sleeping in and when I came up to get out the door to meet with Chad and Alicia for pictures the rest of the family were just getting up. We rushed everyone and headed out but were about 15 minutes late to Wheeler Farm for pictures. Chad and Alicia were wandering around with Spencer amongst the animals and having fun. I was expecting wind as a storm was supposed to be coming in but it was a nice day and barely needed light jackets with only a slight breeze. We wandered and took pictures and relaxed. The farm was very pretty with many of the leaves down or falling down all around us and some just turning colors in the trees, so the ground was covered and some of the trees had beautiful colors shimmering in the sunlight. I would like to have spent more time there as a family just walking and enjoying the atmosphere but all were busy, busy, busy so after pictures they all rushed off and I walked around by myself for a bit, taking pictures and enjoying the grounds and the music of a bagpipe player there just to play for anyone who wished to listen. Brian came on my scooter after his class so he went with the others back to grandpa and grandma’s and I took the scooter after I was done. We finished watching the BYU game and we really wiped them out. They taped it for us so we could watch it later. After a visit there we headed for home to get a few things done and then go to a Stake Luau. It was a family that someone in our ward knew that put on the show and they did a great job. We thought it was a dinner and show but it was only dessert so we were hungry when we got home and fixed something quick as it was late.
On Sunday I made some last minute preparations for my two classes and we headed for church. I was feeling like we shouldn’t be teaching about the new family search until we actually could get on but they announced in Sacrament meeting that we could get on starting on Monday. That will be good as they can now get on and actually do what we talk about in class. I went over the basics with the new program but still feel like I am only one step ahead of everyone else. The class seemed to go well and then I dashed out for a drink and then to Priesthood to teach the High Priests. My lesson was different as it was just about 9 pages of descriptions of Joseph Smith from people who knew him. That seemed to lack some variety so I approached it in a different way. I first talked about favorite prophets of old that people in the group had (only a few minutes). Then I read a few ancient descriptions of how the people loved their prophet, whether it was Abraham or Moses. There were a few moist eyes in the room as I read some of the descriptions (from a book I have of ancient commentaries of the scriptures called “The Bible as it Was”). We then read about Joseph Smith with each choosing their favorite from a page they were assigned (no time to read them all). We then talked about how the prophets are very close to the Lord and seem to be very good at showing love because they felt it from the Lord (again a few seemed to be affected but the spirit of the message). I then talked about how important it is to love our prophet telling as much about us as it does about him. Both lessons seemed to go well and I enjoyed it.
Well, Sunday night was choir practice and singing at home and watching a DVD about early church history then writing letters.
That’s it in a nutshell.
Keep following the examples of the great prophets and love, love, love.
Ken and clan



From Elder Fortie:
Well, I still am alive by definition, though brain dead may be fitting... it's nap time. I am worn out like a moldy old carpet! I did a zone conference this last week, I prepared it, conducted it, and was asked by president Wade to be the main speaker at the conference, which took me half the day to do, starting at 7 in the morning, then I got home, and did 4 hours of reports for a stake meeting, then I went to the stake meeting and spoke there, and then it was 9 P.M and time to go home, and I realized I hadn't talked to one person that wasn't an active member all day! ugh... Then I had to do 7 hours worth of numbers and reports for Salt Lake, through three other days of the week, then I had to plan some zone works for next week, then the ONLY DAY ALL WEEK I HAD FREE TO WORK IN MY AREA, one of our missionaries got in a car wreck and had to have surgery on his arm so I had to go be with one of the Assistants and his companion to deal with that situation... so I taught one appointment that day. But it was a really cool appointment! I was with one of the Assistants who doesn't speak Spanish, so it was all me I was flying solo, which isn't difficult for me to do as far as me being able to do it, but having a second witness is much more powerful when you teach, so I was up against this die hard old born and raised catholic lady, and I had no companion to testify with me, I told her the moment I met her we were here to help her repent and be baptized, and she just looked at me and said "I've been baptized and I don't need to be baptized again, I've been Catholic my whole life and I'm not going to change. I told her to listen to what I had to say and then she could decide for herself when I was done. I taught her about the restoration of the church, and as I shared Joseph Smith's first vision her eyes filled with tears, and then I stopped, and sat there in silence as she stared at the floor crying. Once she finally made eye contact with me again, I asked her if she would be baptized, she told me "God is in this room, and I know everything you've told me is true, I will pray to God tonight and ask him if he wants me to be baptized, if he tells me yes, then I will do it, but I need to pray first, because this means everything I've believed in my whole life is wrong, and I will be leaving everything I knew behind." Then I gave her a Book of Mormon with Moroni's promise marked for her to read, and told her to get down on her knee's right now and ask God if it was true. She did so right there in front of us and again started to cry, at the end she just looked at me, and said you're right, it is true, but I must ask God if he wants me to leave my church, because the Catholic church is my life. I told her it was true, and I understood that she would have to leave everything behind, but that she could not deny God and pretend she had not felt the truth of our message, I told her we'd be back tomorrow, when she had had a chance to talk to God about it. Then we left. It was not my area, I was out there helping out the Assistants, the only two missionaries in this mission who's lives are even more chaotic then mine haha, so I didn't get to see the results, but I'll be following up with them today on what happened. It was a good experience. I have many like that actually, I just normally don't have time to write them down, I wish I did, because my memory does not hold details as well as I'd like, it all just blurs together and I lose track of precious memories...
This week otherwise has been mostly all hubbub and such. I've been dealing with a lot of stuff all week, I don't think I've gotten more then 6 hours of sleep in a night this week, it's been a rush at every moment, even P-day, I was asked to put on a missionary activity day, so I had like 20 missionaries playing Mofia, while I had like 20 more playing fools bell, which is a game where everyone except one person is blindfolded, and the one who is not blindfolded has a bell that they have to ring non-stop, and all the blindfolded people have to try and catch the one with the bell! Oh it's madness but it's hilarious to watch 20 blindfolded people in a gym chasing the sound of a bell as the bell person dodges about between them trying not to get touched.
Any how, I gots to get going. I hope all is well in the world beyond, I'm still going, and I might just live to see the Christmas lights at the temple here! They are putting them up as we speak! TOODLES!!!Love,Elder Fortie




From Michelle:

Dear ma familia,
Again, we have a quite insignificant week… I worked Monday, Wednesday, and Friday (at Kneaders), so I have no big news for any of those three days. So here we go on an update for everything else that did happen!
Tuesday we had Young Womens in excellence. We displayed a project that we had been working on, mine being my room. Don’t worry, I didn’t attempt to bring my whole room to display, I only brought some of the paints that I used, some pictures that I am hanging on my walls, and some other cute crafts that I’ve made to match my room! I also had to give a talk that night, and I gave one on the prophet Moroni and the life that he lived. I talked about how he had to stand up for the beliefs that he had, and how we can go by his example today. I didn’t quite get in all the things I wished I could have said, but it wasn’t too bad.
On Thursday I had Special Needs Mutual with my little friend Celeste. Most of the night went fairly well with no horrible incidents, until Celeste had to go to the bathroom. As she was closing her stall door, I saw a lighter on the floor in front of her, and tried to quickly stop her, but to no avail. She had locked the door, and seen it. She grabbed it and just wouldn’t let go! I was so worried and afraid that she would get hurt. I couldn’t get it away from her, and tried for at least twenty minutes. Finally, her mom came to pick her up, and I ran to tell her what was happening. She told Celeste very excitedly that someone had been looking so hard for that lighter and that Celeste was now a hero. Celeste got really excited that she was a hero now, and gave up the lighter without a fight. I guess after 16 years of experience you come to know exactly what will get your kid.
Friday I went to UVU with a few friends during the day to watch our school volleyball team play. They made it to state, so we were excused from part of school to go watch their game! We played fairly well, and won one, and lost another. But one of the most exciting parts for me was watching Lone Peak high school’s team. (We didn’t play them, but they were on the court next to us.) They were all amazing and looked like professionals out there! That team is going far, I’ll tell you that!
After we got back to school that day, we had our school Spirit Bowl!!! Our school has a week every year called Spirit Week. Monday-Thursday you all dress up like they tell you. For example, there is Mustache Monday, Twin Tuesday, Wacky Wednesday…etc. Then at lunch, we have lunch time activities that you can participate in to earn points for your grade level. Then on Friday, each grade level is assigned a different set of colors based on the Spirit bowl theme. This year, the theme was medieval times, so the Seniors were in purple and gold for royalty, us juniors were in sky blue and white/silver for knights, the sophomores were in green and brown as peasants, and the teachers and faculty were in red and orange for the dragons. Then we have a giant assembly that is a battle between the classes. Each grade has representatives that compete, and it is SO funny to watch! They have dance offs every year, this year we had a joust, and then they have an obstacle course. For most of the competition, juniors and seniors were neck and neck for the lead (even though seniors always win no matter what.) and on the obstacle course, they were supposed to be climbing up a big, slippery, blow up slide. The senior and junior competing in that event kept pulling each other down and wouldn’t let the other get anywhere. They are good friends and on the football team together, so they were just laughing about it for a while, but finally the junior tackled the senior off the slide onto the gym floor! They were both laughing about it, but because of the event, juniors were disqualified. None of us really cared though. We get out year next year, and it made for a really good story! :]
On Saturday, we went to Wheeler Farm with Chad, Alicia, and Spencer so Dad could take some of their family pictures! It was really fun to see Spencer’s reaction to some of the farm animals and to play with him and try to get him to smile for the camera. I love that little boy so much! He’s just a funny little ball of fun! I don’t know what we’d do without him in our lives!
After Wheeler Farm, we went to Grandma and Grandpa’s house to watch the BYU game!! We only made it there as halftime was ending, but it was still cool to see the last half! BYU dominated the game and won 54 to 0!! I just love my team!
We left Grandma and Grandpa’s at the end of the game and we were forced by Mom to get… dun dun dun… a swine flu shot. Now, I’m not sure why, but I seem to have a really bad reaction to shots, which has seemed to instill in me a fear of shots. With my Tetanus shot, my arm swelled up where I got the shot and it looked like I had a baseball in my arm. It was hard like a baseball too, so needless to say, I’m not a fan of needles anymore. The shot wasn’t so bad at first because I had people distracting me and I didn’t have him tell me when he was going to do it. The aftermath however, still hurts. Jennifer and Mom can’t even feel theirs today, but mine now hurts worse than it did yesterday. I have slight bruising around the area, it’s really tender, and the pain from it even goes up my neck. I have to keep taking Advil to make the pain a little more dull. Stupid shots.
Then today, they changed my Young Womens leaders. I got really attached to my leaders again this time, and so the tears were flowing all over the place today. I know that these new leaders will be good for me, but it’s still hard to watch my old leaders go. I’m pretty sure I am really terrible at change.
So that has been my week. I hope you are all doing well and that things are going as they should! I love you all and wish you the best of luck!! Goodnight yall!
Love,
Michelle



From Jennifer:

Hello Family and Friends!-
This week the boys were on vacation and I didn’t know what to do with all the time on my hands! I was bored to death mostly but I got a chance to relax from life!
On Thursday night we had young women’s volleyball (P.S. we made it to regional!) I played the first game and then on to the second but while going for the ball I jumped into the air and whacked it over coming back down with a smack and my ankle giving out, usually it just gets better after a while (and yes it is usual) and I just deal with it so I kept playing…but that made it worse. So I was hobbling around that night with some of the cursed young women that I love to death carrying me around, I figured it would be fine tomorrow…but no. I was hobbling around school with annoying pain in my ankle with all my friends trying to carry me. Saturday it was stiff but fairly well and then Sunday it was good again.
So random different thoughts from this week- I hit myself with the car door on accident, it gave me a bruise. I was also a little sick but just the sniffles and after a few days I was good again. Michelle, my mom and I got the H1N1 vaccination, Michelle’s arm still hurts badly but my mom and I are fine, honestly I was fine five minutes later because after my stomach illness and getting so many needles poked in me a little shot isn’t a big deal anymore. Our young women leaders were released and Michelle, Rylie another girl in our ward, and I were all in tears. It was sad to see them leave but exciting to meat new ones. On Saturday we went to Wheeler farms to take pictures of Chad, Alicia and Spencer and a little of me to. It was really fun and such a pretty place! We had a stake luau that night which was cool with all the dancers and delicious cake! I think that covered it for this week! See you all down the road! And remember-when life gets to hard to stand, kneel…in prayer.

Jennifer

Monday, November 2, 2009

October 26 - November 1, 2009

Fortie Family Flyer
October 26 – November 1, 2009

Dear Family and Friends,
I missed writing about this week, and am finally sitting down to write a few weeks later. Not much to tell. It should be a week of merriment and family fun for Halloween. Indeed the children were off to parties and activities with friends but I was burdened with money matters to the point of affecting my health and well being. My mood was such that I was not able to get myself to carve pumpkins with the kids on Saturday (a shock to the family as my artistic nature tends to have me doing such things with gusto); better left to them so they wouldn’t have my darkness around them (ah, the mood swings of said artistic personality). Jennifer started carving a rather difficult project and then didn’t have my guidance to help her and the time to finish her modified simplified version so she left it for me to do as she had to go to work (perhaps to help me I don’t know). I finished carving away the sides to make them thin enough for light to shine through leaving a pumpkin face thick in front to stand out against the light background. It turned out fairly well and the carving was actually rather therapeutic. I find that creating something always helps, though when I don’t feel like doing things I don’t think of using it as therapy. Brian carved a jabberwocky that looked very scary (it throwing up on our front porch and all) and Michelle carved one that said Owl City on it (a local group she likes). Chad, Alicia and Spencer came over for a surprise visit Halloween night. They brought dinner with them, which was very nice. We had a few friends of kids here so we put a few things Tami put on the stove for us with their food and were able to feed everyone (Tami worked until 7:00 pm or so). It was nice to see them and it was good for the spirit as well. Of course we took pictures of the little sock monkey they brought along (Spencer). After a while all the kids left and Tami handed out candy while I worked. Last year I got up on the roof with a ghost on a rope that I would swing in to great the kids at the door but I had enough of the parents ask me not to scare their little kiddies that I decided it wasn’t worth it this year (good grief, it’s Halloween), besides I wasn’t quite in the spirit of the holiday (get it – spirit, ghost, haha) so I just went down stairs and worked.
I went to the temple this week and felt a good spirit there that helped me as I grapple with my problems and questions as to what to be, how to overcome fear, etc, etc, etc.
We went to church and they announced that I was starting the Family History class during Sunday School but only one problem, they forgot to tell me this was going down. I raced home a few minutes before sacrament meeting ended, grabbed the manual and a DVD to play and made it back just as it was time to start the class. We watched the DVD and I went through lesson one and faked it fairly well. Our Stake is finally getting on to new.familysearch.org this week. Well see how things go.
Well, that’s it for Halloween week. Perhaps that’s why the demons were after me. Keep the Spirit (the good one).
Ken and clan




From Elder Fortie:
Well World, we go forth, undaunted. I may perish in the dust in the process due to lack of brain tissue to handle all the overloading of brain waves and information being processed there-in, but at least there will be so much on my mind at the time that I probably wont even have realized it's happened yet, I shall just awake in a happy place! Honestly... I have so many meetings this upcoming week that I think I might cry, for my brain shall melt into a pool of grey matter residing within a echoing cavern of emptiness called my head. The only day my companion and I have to work our area is... oh wait... I forgot, I don't get a day to work my area this week! blech! I have no idea when I am even going to prepare half of the firesides, speeches, presentations, conferences, meetings, charts, interviews, reports, exchanges and "fix the dumb people sessions" that I have to do this week. I think half of them I will end up doing off the cuff and just pretending like I know what I'm doing because I just don't have time to prep. for all of them. Wow... Anyhow, I had a meeting with President Packer this past week, that man is amazing, he gets stuff done, he sat me down and said "Elder Fortie, you are the head zone leader, you are the lead representative of the work of the Lord in Oakland, so I want you to tell me, what this stake can do to help you". We had an hour long chat, and I told him what I thought, and in less then a week, things we have been trying to get the stake to do for months happened. It was great, so that was really exciting.Halloween we were on our way home at 6 P.M. because of the madness that happens here at night on Halloween we missionaries aren't allowed out. And even at 6 I was amazed at the things I saw as I drove home... I'm not going to share, but oh how wicked and abominable this world is becoming. I can see why they had us go in at 6. Be grateful for Utah! People may make fun of it as a little bubble. But heck, I say give me the bubble if that's what I have to deal with outside the bubble!Anyhow, sorry I don't have much time again, I hope and pray you are all doing well! I love you all!Love, Elder Fortie



From Michelle:
Dear peeps,
Quick letter for you today, (and I promise it actually will be this time). It’s late and I am sleepy, so I will make this short and sweet.
This week was a lot of work, and some more work, then some school, and some staying up late to do homework, and then more school. I bet you are all just thrilled to delve more into the details of my oh-so-thrilling-and-eventful life, so here goes.
There are really only two big events from this week. The first was Bob the Baker leaving work. Bob is the really strange and old big brother that I never had. (I know, I have 4 strange big brothers, but he’s the oldest.) I worked with him at Kneaders, and he was probably my favorite person to work with. He just made me laugh all the time and I loved to come in to see him! He was a spaz and we got along so well. He’s the guy that let me tie-dye his work shirts. Friday was his last day, and he made us special food and snacks as a goodbye, and when he finally, officially left, I cried. He’s moving to Arizona to finish school, and I’m really sad. He and I talked about how funny it was that we had gotten so close in the short time that I had been there and how much we would miss breaking the rules and defying “the man” together. It was a really sad day.
The other big event of the week was Halloween of course! In the morning, I didn’t work, so Mom, Jennifer, and I went in to Kneaders to have breakfast! I always serve the food, but had never eaten breakfast there before! It was really yummy and we had a fun time! Then we went home, cleaned, and got ready for the rest of Halloween. Spencer, Chad, and Alicia came over for a while and it was really fun to see them and to see little Spencer in his sock monkey outfit! He is so cute, I can’t even stand it. I never thought I could love a little kid quite so much, and he’s not even my kid! I can’t wait to be a mommy and have little kids of my own! :] Don’t worry, I won’t try to speed the process alone or anything! After we had some dinner with them, I headed to my friend Dallin’s house for a Halloween party! We ate more food, played outside, and then went inside to watch a scary movie in his basement! The guys said they were there for comfort after the scary parts, but I think they spent about half of the movie scaring me even worse, and then calming me down just to scare me again! I guess I bring it upon myself with my jumpy nature though. After the movie, it was time to head home, but I was so freaked out, I made my friend Dallin go check my car and make sure that there were no murderers in my backseat or anything. He laughed at me, but did it willingly, and then told me to call him when I got home so that he knew I would be safe. I love my guy friends! As cruel as they can be sometimes, (they remind me a lot of you Jas) they are sweet and super concerned most often. Every little scrape I get, they freak out over, and if I shiver once, all of their jackets fly at me at once, and they insist on me taking them all. They are really funny and gentleman-ly, and I am glad I have them around! When I got back to my house, I was still a little spooked, and everybody here was starting another scary movie! Well, naturally I couldn’t turn it down, so I watched that one as well! We were all up past 2 in the morning watching the movie! It was crazy and we’ve all been super tired today.
Speaking of super tired, I really REALLY am, so I think it’s time to wrap this up! I love you all and hope all is well! Remember the season that’s coming up next and try to keep gratitude in your hearts! It will make a huge difference.
“The key to individuality is to get rid of that I’m-afraid-of-looking-stupid line of thought”
Love,
Michelle